So you're sober, now what? It's time to reclaim your light and create a life of love, joy, and unshakable self-worth.
I know what it’s like to feel unfulfilled in recovery, like there should be something more to it… guided toward a better path.
That was me.
I've helped hundreds of women learn to love themselves and reclaim their worth in recovery and I'd love to help you too.
Do you ever feel like something invisible is holding you back from stepping into the person you're meant to be? That quiet, persistent voice whispering, "You're not enough," or "What if you fail?" Those sneaky thoughts are limiting beliefs—and trust me, they're more common than you might realize.
The great news? You can break free from them. And when you do, you'll unlock parts of yourself you didn't even know existed. Here's how to start:
The very first step in overcoming limiting beliefs is identifying them. You can't change what you're not aware of. These are the thoughts that hold you back, that tell you, "I can't," "I'm not enough," or "What's the point in trying?" Take a moment to reflect on what you believe about yourself, especially in areas where you feel stuck. Write them down. Be real, be honest. Awareness is the key that unlocks the door to change.
Now that you've recognized your limiting beliefs, it's time to challenge them. Ask yourself: Is this belief really true? What evidence do I have that contradicts it? For example, if your belief is "I'm not smart enough to succeed," ask yourself, "What times in my life have I actually proven myself wrong by learning something new or achieving a goal?" Often, these beliefs are just stories we've told ourselves for too long. By reframing them, you can start to see the possibilities that were always there.
Once you've questioned and challenged those limiting beliefs, it's time to replace them with something better. Think of it like swapping out an old, uncomfortable pair of shoes for one that fits you perfectly. Take those negative thoughts and turn them into positive affirmations. For example, if you find yourself thinking, "I'll never be successful," flip it to: "I am capable of achieving anything I set my mind to." Make this a daily practice—write them down, say them out loud, and believe them. Over time, these empowering statements will start to feel more natural than the old limiting ones.
Here's the thing—our environment plays a huge role in shaping our mindset. If you're constantly surrounded by negativity, it's going to be hard to break free from your limiting beliefs. That's why it's so important to create an environment that reinforces positive thinking. Whether that's filling your social media with uplifting quotes, spending time with people who encourage you, or creating a space in your home that feels inspiring, make sure the energy around you supports the mindset you're building.
Finally, belief isn't enough on its own—you have to act in alignment with your new beliefs. What's one small step you can take today towards the goals you've been hesitant to pursue? It doesn't have to be a giant leap—just something that moves you forward. Each action, no matter how small, builds confidence and reinforces that you're capable of achieving anything. Every step you take will help you break free from the chains of your old beliefs and step fully into your true potential.
Limiting beliefs can feel like they have a tight grip on you, but they don't have to control your life. You have the power to identify, challenge, and replace them with thoughts that uplift and empower you. By creating a supportive environment and taking action aligned with your new mindset, you'll start to see real, lasting change. Remember, it's a process, and it's okay to go at your own pace.
Use these strategies to start overcoming those limiting beliefs and step into the life you're truly meant to live. You deserve it.
Much love,
J