Impostor syndrome – it's something many of us experience, yet few of us talk about. You know the feeling: the voice inside that tells you you're not good enough, that your successes are just flukes, and that sooner or later, everyone will figure out you're a fraud. It doesn't matter how much you've achieved; impostor syndrome can sneak up on you, making you question every step forward.

But here's the truth: You are not alone in this, and you are not an impostor.

What is Impostor Syndrome?

Impostor syndrome is a psychological phenomenon where individuals doubt their accomplishments and fear being exposed as a "fraud," despite external evidence of their competence. It's that nagging feeling that you're not as capable as others think you are, or that your successes are due to luck rather than your talent or hard work.

This syndrome tends to be particularly common among high-achievers who set high expectations for themselves. The irony? The more successful you are, the more likely you might experience impostor syndrome.

Signs You Might Be Struggling with Impostor Syndrome

Recognizing the symptoms is the first step to overcoming impostor syndrome. Here are a few signs that this might be holding you back:

• Self-Doubt: Constantly second-guessing your abilities, even after a job well done.

• Attributing Success to Luck: Believing your achievements aren't a result of your skills but rather luck, timing, or other external factors.

• Fear of Exposure: Being afraid that others will discover you're not as talented or knowledgeable as they believe you to be.

• Overworking to Prove Your Worth: Overcompensating by putting in excessive effort just to feel like you've earned your place.

• Discounting Praise: Deflecting compliments or praise by thinking "they're just being nice" rather than accepting the recognition as genuine.

Why Impostor Syndrome is Holding You Back

When impostor syndrome takes root, it can stunt your personal and professional growth. Here's how:

• Lack of Confidence: Impostor syndrome strips you of your confidence, making you less likely to pursue opportunities or take risks.

• Perfectionism: The fear of failure can drive perfectionist tendencies, which in turn causes unnecessary stress and burnout.

• Avoidance: You might shy away from new opportunities or challenges because you fear you'll be "found out" as unqualified.

• Undervaluing Your Work: You might downplay your accomplishments, even when they deserve recognition. This can affect your career advancement, as you're not vocal about your successes.

Overcoming Impostor Syndrome

So, how do you overcome this self-sabotaging mindset? It starts with recognizing that impostor syndrome is just that: a mindset, not reality. Here are some steps you can take to move past it and embrace your true worth:

1. Acknowledge the Thoughts, but Don't Let Them Define You

The first step in overcoming impostor syndrome is recognizing that the thoughts and feelings it generates are not the truth. Just because you feel like a fraud doesn't mean you are one. Challenge your negative self-talk by asking: "What's the evidence?" When you review your actual accomplishments, you'll likely find that your successes are very real.

1. Accept Compliments and Praise

The next time someone compliments you or acknowledges your work, resist the urge to downplay it. Instead, say thank you and let yourself absorb the positive feedback. These moments are reminders of your competence.

1. Talk About It

One of the most effective ways to battle impostor syndrome is by talking to others. Open up about how you feel, whether it's a friend, colleague, or mentor. You'll quickly discover that you're not the only one who feels this way, and sharing your experience can lighten the load.

1. Focus on Progress, Not Perfection

Remember that perfection is an illusion. Instead of striving for impossible standards, celebrate your progress. No matter how small, every step forward is a sign of growth.

1. Keep a Record of Your Wins

Document your successes, big and small. When impostor syndrome creeps up, go back to this record and remind yourself of what you've accomplished. This practice can help shift your mindset from "I'm not good enough" to "I'm capable and have proof to back it up."

You Deserve to Take Up Space

Impostor syndrome might make you feel like you're standing on shaky ground, but the reality is that you've earned your place in every room you walk into. It's time to recognize your worth, embrace your strengths, and stop letting that inner critic run the show. You are talented, capable, and deserving of all the success you've achieved.

If impostor syndrome is something you're struggling with, know that you're not alone. In our "Own Your Worth" workbook, we guide you through exercises and reflections to help you overcome these feelings and step into the confident, capable person you truly are. You have what it takes to silence that inner impostor for good. Let's take that first step together.